Chris Guillebeau makes a living traveling (he visited every country in the world before his 35th birthday), writing (his blog and several New York Times bestselling books) and only pursuing work that is personally meaningful to him. He has definitely hit the career lottery, and in his new book Born for This: How to Find the Work You Were Meant to Do, he explains how you can also find the work you were born to do.
Hitting the career lottery is not a far-fetched dream like matching all six Powerball numbers. It’s not a matter of luck but a matter of knowing yourself and engineering the right set of circumstances. Guillebeau points out that this is not a book designed to tell you how to quit your job and become your own boss (he already wrote that book — The $100 Startup). Whether you want to become an entrepreneur or find meaningful work within an established company, Guillebeau will help you identify your own personal intersection of joy, money and flow. Joy is what you love to do, money supports you and flow is the Zen-like state you experience when working on something you are exceptionally good at. The work you were born to do will hit all three targets.
There will be no precise syllabus to follow because the work that you were born to do is a path that only you can chart. However, the book contains exercises to help you identify what you’re best at and what makes you happy, checklists and stories of real people who have found unconventional routes to their dream jobs.
Guillebeau is also the author of The Happiness of Pursuit: Finding the Quest That Will Bring Purpose to Your Life and The Art of Non-Conformity: Set Your Own Rules, Live the Life You Want and Change the World.
Now that it has finally warmed up, it’s time to get outdoors for a cookout or picnic and take advantage of the farmers markets! Here are some new cookbooks, on different levels of complexity, to inspire you and get you started.
Casual and home cooks will find serviceable recipes in The Love & Lemons Cookbook by Jeanine Donofrio. In this bright and engaging book, Donofrio takes a practical approach to food, contextualizing her meals by what is in season and readily available in the pantry. She is quick to provide advice for those nights when you don’t feel like laboring over a stove after work and includes suggestions for reenergizing leftovers. All of her recipes are vegetarian, and it is easy to pair them with a cut of meat or, in the opposite direction, adapt them to become vegan or gluten-free. If you have signed up for a CSA share this season, Love & Lemons can get you started figuring out what to do with the less common vegetables that might crop up in your share — like kohlrabi and parsnips. Many more recipes are also available on Donofrio’s award-winning blog.
For gourmands looking for a challenge, there is The Field to Table Cookbook by Susan L Ebert, a manifesto that is the culmination of her previous work editing Rodale’s Organic Life (formerly Organic Gardening) and Texas Parks & Wildlife magazines. Ebert has shaped her life around a philosophy that puts the sustainability of her resources as the foremost consideration. She hunts, fishes, forages and farms for as much of her food as she can within the season and has closely researched where her food grows, including population statistics of the wildlife she shoots, chemical analyses of soil composition in her garden and snapshots on the history of American agricultural practices. It may take all day or longer to cook the meals precisely as Ebert does, but, through her writing, she demonstrates how sourcing your own food is not drudgery but an adventure. As much Jack London as Alice Waters, descriptions of tracking her quarry are laced with reminisces of stargazing and sunrises, meditations on the afternoons she spent as a child picking fruit and fishing trips spent with her own children. Those readers who might be squeamish or critical of Ebert’s hunting and fishing will be swayed by her reasoning and find a sympathetic pen from a woman not above crying for a goose she will later eat. It is worth noting that because Ebert’s lifestyle is so closely entwined with the environment and culture of her Texas home some of her meals, like Feral Hog Chile Verde, will be difficult to make here in Baltimore without relying on imports. Nevertheless, there is enough overlap between the Texas and Maryland climates to try out or adapt plenty of the recipes — homages to Chesapeake Bay seafood pop up surprisingly often!
Looking for the next buzzworthy title or the perfect beach read? BCPL librarians are sharing and discussing the must-have books for summer at Book Buzz sessions at various library branches. Join us and you’ll have an instant summer reading list!
We’re talking about so many great summer reads, but here’s a quick look at our favorites. Nonfiction readers should not miss Mary Roach’s newest, Grunt: The Curious Science of Humans at War, in which she applies her childlike sense of wonder and curiosity to war by asking all the questions that pop into her head when visiting military research facilities from Natick Soldier Systems Center to the nearby Aberdeen Proving Ground.
Fiction readers will devour these favorites which include Yaa Gyasi’s Homegoing, a debut novel which Ta-Nehisi Coates called an “inspiration.” Told in 14 chapters spanning 250 years, each chapter tells the story of a descendant of two sisters from Ghana. Another debut getting considerable attention is Lily and the Octopus by Steven Rowley, a charming study of loneliness, the limits of one’s sanity and the powerful bond between a man and his dog.
In the mood for a thriller? Be sure to check out City of the Lost by Kelley Armstrong set in Rockton, a secret town in the far north of Canada where the hunted go to hide. Casey and her best friend each have reasons to disappear, but upon arriving in Rockton they realize they may be in even more danger. Wendy Walker’s All Is Not Forgotten follows teen Jenny Kramer’s brutal rape and the repercussions when her parents opt to try a new drug offered by doctors that will eradicate the memory of the rape.
My favorite is Leigh Himes’ The One That Got Away, which centers on Abbey Lahey, an overworked mom whose life is in a rut when she spies a former suitor, Alexander van Holt, in the pages of Town & Country. She immediately wonders “what if” and can’t stop thinking about how her life would have been different. When she wakes in the hospital from an accidental fall, she is Mrs. Alexander van Holt with money, privilege and status. But is it all she dreamed it would be? Be sure to join us to hear about more hot titles at a Book Buzz near you.
When you think celebrity memoir, a series of letters dedicated to various men isn’t necessarily what comes to mind first. But Mary-Louise Parker’s Dear Mr. You is more than that. Using letter writing as a vehicle, Parker explores her relationships with the men she has met, may meet or never got a chance to meet, and by doing so revels in the way her relationships shape her life.
While her letters are candid, ranging from the erotic to the brutally honest, Parker doesn’t indulge in any kind of exposé or scandal; in fact she rarely names the addressees by their full names, so anyone looking for scandalous celebrity gossip may be a bit disappointed in that regard. Instead, what Parker creates is a poetic addition to the memoir genre. She tells her life story by reflecting on the lives and experiences of others, from the grandfather she never knew to a cab driver she would never meet again. While not all memories of the men who have come and gone from her life are pleasant, Parker embraces the good and the bad — the impersonal stranger, the demanding mentor, the intimate lover — and thanks each for the mark they have left on her life.
Lyrical and poignant, Dear Mr. You is many things in one slim volume. It’s a contemplation of the impact men have on their relationships, and a reminder that even trifling interactions between two people can leave a lasting impression. Ultimately, it is an epistolary reflection on how a life is shaped by people — living, dead or imagined. Reminiscent of Joan Didion’s works, Dear Mr. You is a celebration of a life through the lens of relationships from the trivial to the significant.
Edward O. Wilson has spent many decades explaining science to the multitudes. His passion for natural history rings true in all of his books. From his very first book The Ants (his specialty is myrmecology — the study of ants) to The Social Conquest of Earth, up through his most recent, Half-Earth: Our Planet’s Fight for Life, Wilson spends his words to ignite in every human passion for the Earth that equals his own.
This 86-year-old myrmecologist starts off huge: Humans need to set aside fully half the Earth for nature, no exceptions. Why do they need to do this? Because only something that startling in scope can offset the magnitude of what people have been doing to the planet. His ultimately hopeful conclusion inspires the reader to action. This world can get better. The Earth can heal. But Wilson believes that the inhabitants of the Earth cannot sit by and dream of a better place — they have to make it. All life is interdependent, and in this Anthropocene Era, the era of humanity, humans are best-equipped to begin the healing process.
Believe him or not, there is absolutely no arguing with the man’s passion or his commitment to making the world safe for generations to come. Anyone interested in climatology, biology, or any of the life sciences, and those who enjoyed The Human Age: The World Shaped by Us by Diane Ackerman or Zoologies: On Animals and the Human Spirit by Alison Hawthorne Deming should read this book right away.
When you pick up a copy of Saving Alex: When I Was 15 I Told My Mormon Parents I Was Gay, and That’s When My Nightmare Began, you do so already knowing that author Alexandra Cooper grew up Mormon, that she came out to her parents at a young age and that the results were disastrous. What you might not realize is how profound, life-changing, community-changing and uplifting the journey Alex took after her “nightmare” was, and what a powerful effect this young woman has had over one of the most complicated and tightly knit communities in our country.
One of the final strongholds that has continued to uphold discrimination against gay Americans, and gay youth in particular, has been the establishment of the Church of Latter Day Saints. According to Mormon doctrine, which includes but goes beyond the Old Testament, gay individuals cannot belong to sacred family units, or the Church, or reach Heaven. Certain belief in this is what frightened Alex’s parents to hysterics when, at 15, rebellious and strong-willed, she told them that she was dating another girl, and that she was a lesbian. They had taken action to discipline their “problem” child before, but this time their choices were devastating. They sent Alex away from their home in California to live with a family in St. George, Utah —a family that promised to help “cure” Alex of the sin of homosexuality. Alex found herself isolated from her friends, unable to use any methods of communication outside the strangers’ house, and, when she acted out in desperation for freedom, beaten, enslaved and made to carry heavy burdens and stare at a wall for weeks at a time without rest.
Alex tells her story with such love and tenderness that it’s mortifying to realize what cruelties she endured. Despite her trauma, Alex speaks with clear-headed empathy for her family as well as the culture she was raised in. She expresses an understanding for the fear and anxiety that led her abusers to treat her the way they did, even if she now knows they were wrong for trying to change her. Alex’s case made very recent history in Utah in 2011 by overturning legislation that enforced a parent’s right to try to change or reform a child’s sexuality against their will. Saving Alex is a hard book to read, but is ultimately a triumph, ending as reality often does — broken but hopeful, with some things lost and some things gained. Alex did not lose her life, family or rights, as so many before her did. She hopes to gain the same for the youth of the future.